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  • Breast Feeding Over The Ages

    The best start to human life is at the mother’s breast.

    Epicurean Roman philosopher and poet Lucretius saw breast feeding as a major drive among human and non human young: “…the young recognize their own mothers, and mothers their young; and we see that this is possible for them no less than for human beings… So the kids with their trembling voices recognize their horned mothers, and the playful lambs the bleating ewes; and thus, as nature demands, they all run to their own udders of milk.” (Book II, 349–370, De Rerum Natura (On the Nature of Things), approx 55 BCE)

    Favorinus was a 2nd-century Roman-era philosopher and orator from Gaul who is quoted in Attic Nights book as saying: “The child’s own feelings of affection, fondness, and intimacy are centered wholly in the one by whom it is nursed …… ” (Favorinus as recorded by Aulus Gellius in Noctes Atticae (Book XII, Chapter 1, Section 21) : “…sola, unde alitur, occupatur et proinde, ut in expositis usu venit, matris, quae genuit, neque sensum ullum neque desiderium capit.“)

    “If you wish to revolutionize society, …….. the first duty of a woman is to herself as a rational being, and the second as a mother, which includes the obligation to nurse her own offspring.” Mary Wollstonecraft, 1792 , A Vindication of the Rights of Woman

    Renoir in “Maternity” in 1885:

    In 1898 Mary Cassatt painted “Louise nursing Her Child” (shown above at the top).

    Dorothea Lange’s 1936 photo of a migrant worker celebrates successful breast feeding under harsh conditions:

    In 2012 the Dalai Lama wrote: “Mother’s milk is, I think, a symbol of compassion and human affection. Without mother’s milk we cannot survive, so our first act as a baby together with our mother is sucking milk from our mother, with a feeling of great closeness.”

    I was a Registered Midwife for thirty years.

    I never ceased to be amazed by the beauty of the newborn bay at the mother’s breast.

    Geoff Fox, August 7, 2026, Melbourne, Australia

    August 7, 2026
    breast feeding, Dalai Lama, Dorothea Lange, Favorinus, inspiration, law-of-attraction, Lucretius, Lucretius. mothers, Mary Cassatt, Mary Wollstonecraft, nursing babies, Renoir

  • MODERN ATTACKS ON MOTHERHOOD #1

    Please watch this space ……….

    July 21, 2026

  • Tony For His Mum

    Geoff Fox, July 15, 2026, Melbourne, Australia

    July 15, 2026

  • MOTHER – MATER – IBU

    At St Mary’s Catholic Church, North Melbourne.

    Geoff Fox, June 14, 2026, Melbourne,

    June 14, 2026

  • HOW AUSTRALIA CAN MISTREAT AUSTRALIAN MUMS #1

    I was a Registered Midwife in Australia for 30 years

    I think Australia can tragically be very good at treating mothers very badly.

    The Isis brides were in refugee camps for six year prior to their return and now some of them are being separated from their kids by being arrested. (One is pictured above on the front page of today’s Herald Sun daily newspaper.)

    This is the mentality that created the stolen generations.

    Astagfirullah.

    Geoff Fox, 8th May, 2026, Melbourne, Australia.

    May 8, 2026
    Australia, Isis Brides, mistreatment of mums, stolen generation mentality

  • Who Has Ever Created A More Emotionally Explosive And Honest Motherhood Movie Than Lynne Ramsay’s “Die My Love”?

    Studying Spiritual Midwifery briefly but intensively in the 1990’s taught me that motherhood is powered by passion.

    But most.of us now cannot handle it.

    Has there ever been a more tender, emotionally explosive and honest motherhóod movie than Lynne Ramsay’s “Die My Love”?

    Geoff Fox December 1, 2025, Melbourne, Australia

    December 1, 2025
    Die My Love, film review, Lynne Ramsay, parenting, PND, Postnatal depression

  • Is Lynne Ramsay’s DIE MY LOVE The Best Film Ever Involving Martin Scorsese?

    This is my initial poetic response to my first viewing of a truly great cinematic poem:

    I am up:
    Riveting,
    A totality,
    Of our living.


    Die.
    My.
    Love.


    Go see God.

    Geoff Fox, former Registered Midwife, November 10, 2025, Cinema Nova, Carlton, Australia

    November 10, 2025
    Die My Love, great musicals, Martin Scorsese, midwifery, Postnatal depression, Spiritual Midwifery

  • MATER DOLOROSA in the Tasmanian Village of Ross

    I studied classical Latin for ten years beginning at high school and finishing at Melbourne University.

    Later on I was a registered midwife for thirty years.

    Today I was deeply moved to see an image of Mary as Mater Dolorosa (Sorrowful Mother) in the Our Lady Of The Sacred Heart church in the lovely village of Ross in Tasmania.

    I think that such simple human places can teach the rest of the modern world cursed by unaffordable housing and rising postnatal depression something about meeting the real needs of mothers.

    An African proverb (made more famous by Hillary Clinton) teaches us that “It takes a village to raise a child.”

    I have found Ross to be a village where the people stop to say hello and love to be helpful. And my own accomodation here at the Stone Cottage Guesthouse is very affordable.

    This village sings to me of good mothering and fathering.

    Geoff Fox, October 27, 2025, Stone Cottage Guesthouse, Ross, Tasmania

    William Montgomery created the stained glass window shown in this micro-movie.

    October 27, 2025
    It takes a village to raise a child, Mater Dolorosa, Mother Mary, Our Lady of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church – Ross, Ross, Saint Mary, Stone Cottage Guesthouse, village life, William Montgomery

  • A Connection Across Time – Pink Dressing Gown Revisited – For Anna With Love

    Lesbia Harford’s poetry was lovingly human, social, physical and spiritual. One of Australia’s truly great writers. We can learn from her. She died in her thirties and was buried at Kew Boroondara Cemetery.

    I am in deep grief now for the death in April this year of my best friend, Anna Rumaderun, a young mum, who named her only son after me. Like Harford, Anna died in her thirties and is now buried in Ternate, Indonesia.

    In a bewildered spirit of freedom, rewriting Lesbia’s poem Pink Dressing Gown, this slightly complicated concatenation of words words is for Anna (and Ms Harford too) :

    l’d love to feel her looking up at me
    Stretched underground
    In a pink resting shroud
    Her hands are by her side
    Her hair all gone
    I loved to see
    I loved to see
    her smiling back at me

    Melihatnya memandang Aku/Senang Aku Senang. (Seeing her look at me, I was happy)

    Berbaring bebas dia dari kesakitan/Nafasnya hilang (She is now lying free of her pain: her breath is gone.)

    Kusenang melihat/Senyumnya padaku (I was so happy seeing her smile.)

    Senyumnya padaku (her smile for me)

    I hope to hear a better singer than I am singing the above words.

    Geoff Fox a previously Registered Midwife and still seeking to live life with women. August 1st, 2025, Melbourne, Australia

    August 1, 2025
    Anna Rumaderun, Kew Boroondara Cemetery, Lesbia Harford

  • Habislah Gelap Terbitlah Terang

    The most famous words of Raden Ajeng Kartini are found in the Indonesian language clause: “Habislah Gelap Terbitlah Terang”. (After the Dark, the Light Rises.)

    These words come from her original Dutch language writing: “Door Duisternis tot Licht”.

    She wrote those words 123 years ago today, on July 28, 1902, at the age of 23, in this profoundly wise and beautiful letter:

    “No cloud lasts for ever; neither is there such a thing as eternal sun-shine.

    From the darkest night the most beautiful morning is born and here I console myself.

    Human life is a true reflection of the life of nature.

    What we must pray for day and night is strength.

    But the rain which makes the leaf and bud of one plant burst forth, beats another into the earth, where it rots.”

    On this day, in 2025, a very real light in my life, after a horrible period of isolating darkness, is Chris Crewther, a Liberal member of Victoria’s state parliament.

    In my dealings with him, Chris has been a perfect embodiment of the Indonesian national ideals, as expressed in the national ideology, Pancasila, of civilised humanity and wise representative government.

    There is more than one reason for this astonishing human goodness from Chris, but one key factor IMHO is his healthy rural background:

    Geoff Fox, July 28, 2025, Melbourne, Australia

    July 28, 2025

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